Learning HOKKIEN (one of the many chinese dialect)

hi, posting this just for laugh..... need some of these laughing therapy..

Learning Hokkien is as easy as ABC

Children - KINA KIA

Boy - DA BOH KIA

Girl - ZHA BOH KIA

Bird - CHIAO KIA

Korean Car - KIA

Give birth - SEH KIA

Furniture - IKEA

Police - MATA KIA

Small house - CHU KIA

Hand phone - NOKIA

Malay - HUAN KIA

Hindu - KEH LENG KIA

Mat Salleh - ANG MOH KIA

Chinese - DENG LANG KIA

Japanese - JIT PUN KIA

Bad guy - PAI KIA

Good guy - HO KIA

Person who read this - GONG KIA

If you laugh - SIAO KIA

S....

eulogy for mum.

Born : 1939
Called home : Sept 26, 2011

Mum is a very simple, no fuss lady but she can be very adamant with her decision. No one can over rule what she has decided, not even High court.!

During her younger days, she has to shoulder the responsibility as head of family as my grandfather passed away early, leaving 7 mouths to feed - grandmother together with 5 siblings in tow. Because of this, our family was kept small, ie Dad, Mum, my brother and myself.

Mum always reminded both of us, brother and me of her hardship and vowed never ever to let her children go through the same journey like her. We had the BEST of everything !!

Mum is always there for anyone - friends and her siblings, nieces and nephews. No double standard treatment from her ..... well maybe one or two !

Mum, you're a fighter and a great warrior. Never complained about anything even when you are sick or in pain. Never wanted to trouble anyone and always thinking about others.

The scarcifice you make taking good care of Sabrina and Wilson when they were born. 14 years on, they are now teenagers !

Thank you, Mum for all the love, care and attention showered to us, your siblings and extended family.

Mum I know you are tired, please rest your weary body. You have done well, did what you need to do, gone places and seen some of the wonders of the world.

REST well and dont worry about us, we are survivors and fighters like YOU! Rest your tired body and dwell in the house of our Lord God, Jesus.

Till we meet again, THANK YOU !! We love you and will miss you dearly.

Here's a peom for you, Mum.

There's magic in a Mother's touch,
and sunshine in her smile.
There's love in everything she does
to make our lives worthwhile.
We can find both hope and courage
Just by looking in her eyes.
Her laughter is a source of joy,
her works are warm and wise.
There is a kindness and compassion
to be found in her embrace,
and we see the light of heaven
shining from a Mother's face.

S...

Fragile.....or precious

Another interesting topic which is worth sharing..........

FRIENDS BECOME A PART OF YOU. WHEN YOU LOSE ONE, IT'S LIKE LOSING A BIT OF YOURSELF......

It's funny how we little appreciate what and who we have in our lives, until they're gone.

Granted some, you are well off but I am truly grateful for all these wonderful people and connections who have come into, remained in and returned to my life or even briefly crossed my path over the last couple of years.

Some friends I had met at seven and some at puppy age of 12, some the cocky age of 17, some during my "jaded" 20's and others, well into my "adult" years. And seeing they're still in my life. I'd say I'm pretty set up with many lifelong friends.

We actually havent been closed for a while now but there was a time, when we were having lunches, dinners together with not a care in the world. A sincere smile between strangers that cross paths in the streets, the gesture of spending time with a loved one.

Even with our strength and resilience, how fragile we humans truly are. How there's just SO much more to life than we were under the impression of. And how, as many before me have voiced, it's almost always the little things which truly makes the difference to most of us.

The gift of hope, bestowed by some very dear friends of mine. These friends become a part of you. They embrace you into their lives and become your urban family. Yes, we are very blessed and count these blessings every day.

Thank You for being my friend when I lay my weary heart and battered bones to rest at night. But I ask of YOU, please watch over my friends tonight.

Some are out with ghoulies in disguise, flying high with angelic wings. Some strumming lullably...... Some over yonder, still waiting for the night.

Watch over all of them, please for I love them very dearly.


Sharing.....

Dream of Truth

One night I went to sleep,
full of worry and concern
and as I lay sleeping a great
lesson did I learn.
In my dream I drifted
to a place far, far away...
where the savior had been taken
to spend his final day.
The crown of thorns brought anguish
as they placed it on his head...
I watched them nail him to the cross
where his precious blood was shed.
Despite his pain and sorrow-
these words he spoke to me,
"Precious one, doubt not my love
and you shall be set free.

DONT WORRY.....BE HAPPY

i came across this article which i found to be interesting and somewhat true....... what do you think ??

Happiness has to come from within us. Be happy with who you are now, with your life.  Try your best every day, give your best shot and have low expectations. So when things turn out better than expected, Rejoice !!!

Its unrealistic to have high expectations, to impose a lot of standards in your life and comparing your situation with other people. That's the biggest problem. It will always makes us unhappy because someone, somewhere will always be better off than us.

There are people who do not have anything - and they are happy. They are enjoying their life so much. They don't have high expectations, they are living for today and from moment to moment.

Besides, having a lot of things isn't guarantee to bring you contentment. Wealth, power and fame contributes only a fraction, 5% towards happiness.  Wealth doesn't bring happiness.  Happiness comes from within you.

You can find that joy inside by learning to love yourself. When you truly love yourself, you don't want to be anybody else. You stop comparing with others. You will be happy at any income level and you will have true confidence without narcissism.

When you truly love living, you're able to find beauty and happiness in even the smallest moment. You're able to enjoy life on a moment-to-moment basis.  When you truly love others, it comes through in your words, action and your smile.

People will naturally like to be around you and forming social connections is easy. This in turn will further feed your own happiness.

Simply contented

True or False ...........................????

Murphy's Laws


Whenever I find the key to success, someone changes the lock.

To Err is human, to forgive is not a COMPANY policy.

The road to success??? Is always under construction.

Alcohol doesn't solve any problems, but if you think again, neither does Milk.

In order to get a Loan, you first need to prove that you don't need it.


All the desirable things in life are either illegal, expensive or fattening or married to someone else.

Since Light travels faster than Sound, people appear brighter before you hear them speak.

If at first you don't succeed? Destroy all evidence that you ever tried.

You can never determine which side of the bread to butter. If it falls down, it will always land on the buttered side.


Anything dropped on the floor will roll over to the most inaccessible corner.

As soon as you mention something, If it is good, it is taken... If it is bad, it happens!

He who has the gold, makes the rules ---- Murphy's golden rule.

When in a queue, the other line always moves faster and the person in front of you will always have the most complex of transactions.


irrespective of the direction of the wind, the smoke from the cigarette will always tend to go to the non-smoker!

smart alec ???

Whatever will be...........

i read an article recently which i find it quite interesting and have put into point form. 

1. Be moderate in our ways
2. Speak and act in a peaceful way.
3. Hurt no one by your words or acts.
4. Love yourself so you can love others.
5. To effectively communicate to understand each other better.
6. Do not always look at your side of the story.
7. Try to see how and what the other groups are feeling or what is troubling them and to seek solutions or answers.
8. Most importantly focus on "WE" and "OUR"

S... smiling..